The Pope is the Pope (until he isn’t)

This is yet another entry in a set of posts about things that I tell my sisters. It may not make much sense to you if you do not come from the same place as my sisters and I do.

What I tell my sisters about Pope Benedict’s resignation.

Shortly after I walked in the door from work, one of my sisters announced that she and my other sister wanted me to tell them why the Pope quit. 

It is not so much that Pope Benedict is quitting, as he is dedicating himself to prayer and making space for someone else to lead the Church. The Pope is old and sick and tired. Before Pope Benedict was pope, he watched John Paul II get very sick. He saw, perhaps as closely as anyone possibly could, how the Church continued on without the Pope’s active leadership, even though there was technically a pope since John Paul II was still alive. Pope Benedict knows more than we ever could about how not only the Church as a  whole, but the Vatican itself works, and what it means to have a Pope who cannot fulfill his responsibilities due to deteriorating health.

In general, bishops resign at the age of 75, and cardinals over the age of 80 do not vote when it is time to choose the next pope. Pope Benedict is 85 years old. He is the bishop of Rome, and as such, he has special rights and responsibilities. But any other bishop would have been relieved of this tremendous burden years ago. The Catholic Church does not generally teach that leaders are to be crushed by the weight of their duties until they are dead.

Canon law holds that “A diocesan bishop who has become less able to fulfill his office because of ill health or some other grave cause is earnestly requested to present his resignation from office.”  No one can require the Bishop of Rome to resign. Everyone should accept with humility the decision of the Bishop of Rome to act with humility in declaring what is best for the Church due to the limitations of his health.

Lent is a time of penance and change as we make our way to the joys of Easter. The suffering involved with this transition is wonderfully timed for this season. It is a perfect time to thank God quietly for the gift of the papacy and of Joseph Ratzinger’s incredibly lengthy ministry.

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The Bishop Hat

What you see here, my friends, is a bishop. A bishop wearing a hat. Actually, I’m about 95% certain that he is a certain Archbishop, but I’d like to leave that to you to guess anyway.

You also see the seminarians wearing hats appropriate to their role (I know this is quite a controversial view, but I personally do not believe that seminarians must always be required to wear birettas on cold winter days ;-)).

I believe that this bishop’s hat needs an official designation as a bishops’ hat, to be worn during specific liturgical functions (namely during works of mercy performed in the winter).

For some reason bishops love these hats, and it thus I was forced to do a double take during the March for Life whenever I saw said hat. It was incredibly confusing, not to mention disappointing, when a longer glance revealed that it was an impostor rather than a bishop!

In order to reduce such problems we need the Vatican to step in here. We may not be able to prevent everyone else from wearing them, but at least the March for Life will be one place where one can know that any man wearing such a hat is certainly a bishop.

There is a time and a place for everything, and sometimes a mitre or zucchetto just won’t cut it.

 

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March For All Life

One of the many complaints I have heard about the March for Life is that it is only about abortion, not really about the complete sanctity of life.

If you share this concern, then I urge you to join these women and march for every human life next year. If the march does not adequately reflect pro-life concerns, then perhaps those who are able to see the problem should do what they can to remedy the situation.

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The Un-Lost Son

I never understood the story of the Prodigal Son. Well, I understood the parable of the actual lost son and his father, but I live in certain circles, and in certain circles one comes quickly to think that the story of the story of the lost son is really about his older brother.

Now the older son had been out in the field and, on his way back, as he neared the house, he heard the sound of music and dancing. He called one of the servants and asked what this might mean.

The servant said to him, ‘Your brother has returned and your father has slaughtered the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’

He became angry, and when he refused to enter the house, his father came out and pleaded with him. He said to his father in reply, ‘Look, all these years I served you and not once did I disobey your orders; yet you never gave me even a young goat to feast on with my friends. But when your son returns who swallowed up your property with prostitutes, for him you slaughter the fattened calf.’

He said to him, ‘My son, you are here with me always; everything I have is yours. But now we must celebrate and rejoice, because your brother was dead and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found.’” (Luke 15)

Who thinks like that?

I did not grow up with the material wealth that makes inheritance a meaningful concept, but I did grow up with siblings whom I adored. I could not understand valuing anything more than my siblings, and I certainly could not imagine feeling entitled to get more from God than others who weren’t entirely perfect.

I have struggled to understand those who feel sincerely hurt by God because they believe that their good behavior entitles them to a spouse or health or a house or a child. I never knew what to say to one who thought herself cheated when people who have apparently lived less virtuously enjoy the blessings which she was denied. I knew firsthand that it can sometimes be a challenge to celebrate with those who have what we do not, but I simply could not grasp the suffering that comes from thinking that God owes one something.

But then a month or two ago I started thinking about how dreadfully unfair my husband’s life is. He has done everything right, and yet instead of getting the natural positive consequences of his choices, he spends his days paying for the sins of others.

One day I told him that I thought it was ridiculous that one person in particular was able to do the wrong thing with no consequences while my husband–who did the difficult, correct thing in that same area of his own life–now literally pays the bill for this other person’s selfish decisions. My husband told me that he believes that the other person does pay in another way. I told him that I understand in terms of eternal consequences, but it still seems absurd that reality here and now does not match up with are actions. He responded that he believes that the other person is suffering now, we just cannot know about it.

Perhaps even the person suffering does not realize that he is suffering, much less that he is suffering for his sins.

And suddenly, I got it. I understood it all.

My husband lives with God here and now. He truly believes that being “here with me always” in God’s presence is of utmost value, and that to choose anything else, even for a period of time, is to pay dreadfully for one’s choice. Because he lives with God, he does not notice the practical injustice of his life and the fact that he is virtuous without reward. He would vehemently insist that virtue is, in fact, its own reward. In fact, I know that when he reads this post he will think that I am making him look too holy, because this is just the way that he lives.

Somehow, I now understand. I see why people feel that the reality of goodness without reward is unfair. I also see why it does not matter at all for one who truly lives with God.

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Therapeutic Uses of the Pill: Asking the Right Question

A Franciscan and a Jesuit were friends. They were both smokers who found it difficult to pray for a long period of time without having a cigarette. They decided to go to their superiors and ask permission to smoke.

When they met again, the Franciscan was downcast. “I asked my superior if I could smoke while I pray and he said ‘no,’” he said.

The Jesuit smiled. “I asked if I could pray while I smoke. He said ‘of course.’”

(Read more Jesuit jokes here)

I love Jesuit jokes. They tend to illustrate the absurdities of intellectual Catholics, and we all know how much I wish that I were both intellectual and Catholic!

I really like this joke in particular because it reminds us of the importance of asking the correct question, even as it mocks manipulation of others with incorrect questions.


Devout Catholics frequently ask the wrong question when it comes to the therapeutic use of the pill. They ask whether it is permissible for a married woman to use the pill for therapeutic purposes. This is a rather pointless question because the answer is a fast and easy “Duh! Of course!”

What we should be asking is whether a married couple is permitted to engage in sexual intercourse in circumstances when the woman’s treatments include use of the pill.

This is much more complex and must be answered with the same care that is rightfully  given to all questions closely related to the most important issues of sanctity of life, marital intimacy, and bioethics.

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Jesus Falls the First Time

St. Alphonsus Liguori’s Way of the Cross is what I think of as the most basic, the most essential. If only we could all truly pray “may I never offend You again” sincerely and innocently each day!

The Third Station:

Jesus Falls the First Time

V: We adore You, O Christ, and we praise You. (Genuflect)

R: Because, by Your holy cross, You have redeemed the world. (Rise)

V: Consider the first fall of Jesus. Loss of blood from the scourging and crowing with thorns had so weakened Him that He could hardly walk; and yet He had to carry that great load upon His shoulders. As the soldiers struck Him cruelly, He fell several times under the heavy cross. (Kneel)

R: My beloved Jesus,
it was not the weight of the cross
but the weight of my sins which made You suffer so much.
By the merits of this first fall,
save me from falling into mortal sin.
I love You, O my Jesus, with all my heart;
I am sorry that I have offended You.
May I never offend You again.
Grant that I may love You always; and then do with me as You will.

(Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory be.)

Christ above in torment hangs
She beneath beholds the pangs
Of her dying, glorious Son

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Find the whole text here if you would like to pray it today. Not as good as with a group, of course, but still!

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Feast of John of the Cross

A lovely introduction to Saint John of the Cross from the Apostleship of Prayer.

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John of the Cross Novena: Day 9

Novena to Saint John of the Cross

Day 9:

Listen Here.

Full Text of Novena Here.

Beginning Prayer to be said each day:

O glorious St. John of the Cross, through a pure desire of being like Jesus crucified, you longed for nothing so eagerly as to suffer, to be despised, and to be made little of by all; and your thirst after sufferings was so burning that your noble heart rejoiced in the midst of the cruelest torments and afflictions.

Grant, I beseech you, O dear Saint, by the glory which your many sufferings have gained for you, to intercede for me and obtain from God for me a love of suffering, together with strength and grace to bear with firmness of mind all the trials and adversities which are the sure means to the happy attainment of all that awaits me in heaven.

Dear Saint, from your most happy place in glory, hear, I beseech you, my prayers, so that after your example, full of love for the cross I may deserve to be your companion in glory. Amen.

Ninth Day: Holy Abandonment

O my loving father St. John of the Cross, to imitate more perfectly our Lord, you generously renounced every consolation, even the spiritual; prayed to suffer and to be despised for God’s sake; and finally died suffering, happy to be condemned by men.

Obtain for me the grace of abandonment to the Will of God that, placing all my joy and my hope in the passion of my Savior, I may at last rest eternally with you in His glory. Obtain for me also the special grace I ask through your intercession during this novena, if it be for the glory of God and for my salvation (make request).

Three Our Fathers and three Hail Marys

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Graham M. Schweig on The Crucifix Drawing of John of the Cross (read the whole thing here)

If we are to complete our interpretation of this drawing, we must turn to St. John’s works. In St. John’s prose and poetry, the interpretation of the crucifixion drawing is powerfully aided specifically by several stanzas from the seventh of his “Romances.” In the following lines, Christ is speaking to the Father:

I will go and tell the world,

spreading the word

of your beauty and sweetness

and of your sovereignty.

I will go seek my bride

and take upon myself

her weariness and labors

in which she suffers so;

and that she may have life

I will die for her

and lifting her out of that deep,

I will restore her to you.

The essential message of St. John’s drawing of the crucifix is revealed by these verses. As these verses plainly express, Christ (the Bridegroom) wants to relieve the soul (the bride) of her suffering by taking it upon himself, and in doing so, restores the soul to the Father.

Thus, this small drawing reveals St. John’s specific relationship with the deity. St. John, through his artistic work, powerfully conveys the experience of his relationship with God to the viewer, thus allowing the interpreter direct access to his experience: the viewer of this work is truly the bride, who is looking on from above at the tortured Bridegroom. Compelled in the direction of the light source, the viewer is restored to the Father. The drawing, even more than these revealing verses, conveys the absolute suffering and sacrifice of Christ, expressing his intensity of love for the bride. While the bride experiences feelings of grief and separation, she also possesses a sense of hope because of the element of light that conveys the presence of the Father to whom the bride is restored.

St. John’s work, though small and simple, is a complete expression unto itself. And yet, as we saw, the compositional elements of form and light established a complex relationship between Christ, the viewer, and the presence of God. Indeed, certain responses are clearly evoked by the work, whether or not the viewer is familiar with St. John’s writings, because it stands today as powerful imagery of divine love. The work commands our attention, as it ultimately reveals the crucifix as an expression of the intense love that the Bride groom has for the bride as she enters the inner life of God.

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John of the Cross Novena: Day 8

Novena to Saint John of the Cross

Day 8:

Listen Here.

Full Text of Novena Here.

Beginning Prayer to be said each day:

O glorious St. John of the Cross, through a pure desire of being like Jesus crucified, you longed for nothing so eagerly as to suffer, to be despised, and to be made little of by all; and your thirst after sufferings was so burning that your noble heart rejoiced in the midst of the cruelest torments and afflictions.

Grant, I beseech you, O dear Saint, by the glory which your many sufferings have gained for you, to intercede for me and obtain from God for me a love of suffering, together with strength and grace to bear with firmness of mind all the trials and adversities which are the sure means to the happy attainment of all that awaits me in heaven.

Dear Saint, from your most happy place in glory, hear, I beseech you, my prayers, so that after your example, full of love for the cross I may deserve to be your companion in glory. Amen.

Eighth Day: Comfort in Affliction

St. John of the Cross, my glorious protector, in your lifetime you were the father of the poor, the consoler of the afflicted and the assured refuge of the suffering; you worked miracles of charity for all, miracles which you repeat even now by means of your holy images and relics.

Deign also to be my consoler and my father; comfort me in my sorrows and aid me to see in every cross a pledge of divine mercy that, through the cross, I may gain heaven.

Obtain for me, too, the special grace I ask through your intercession during the novena, if it be for the glory of God and for my salvation (make request).

Three Our Fathers and three Hail Marys.

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Thomas Merton on Saint John of the Cross (read the whole thing here)

Only the saint and God can tell what distant echoes of an utterly alien everyday common life penetrated the darkness of the jail cell and the infinitely deep sleep of the peace in which his soul lay hidden in God. Touch not the wall . . . but the religious police could not disturb the ecstasy of one who had been carried so far that he was no longer troubled at the thought of being rejected even by the holy!

No one can become a saint without solving the problem of suffering. No one who has ever written anything, outside the pages of Scripture, has given us such a solution to the problem as Saint John of the Cross. I will not speculate upon his answers. I will merely mention the fact that they exist and pass on. For those who want to read it, there is The Dark Night of the Soul. But this much must be said: Sanctity can never abide a merely speculative solution to the problem of suffering. Sanctity solves the problem not by analyzing but by suffering. It is a living solution, burned in the flesh and spirit of the saint by fire. Scripture itself tells us as much. “As silver is tried by fire and gold in the furnace, so the Lord trieth hearts” (Prov 17:3).

“Son, when thou comest to the service of God, stand in justice and fear and prepare thy soul for temptation. Humble thy heart and endure: incline thy ear and receive the words of understanding and make not haste in the time of clouds. Wait on God with patience: join thyself to God and endure, that thy life may be increased in the latter end. Take all that shall be brought upon thee, and in thy sorrow endure and in thy humiliation keep patience. For gold and silver are tried in the fire and acceptable men in the furnace of humiliation” (Sir 2:1-5).

Sanctity does not consist in suffering. It is not even directly produced by suffering, for many have suffered and have be come devils rather than saints. What is more, there are some who gloat over the sufferings of the saints and are hideously sentimental about sufferings of their own, and cap it all by a voracious appetite for inflicting suffering on other people, sometimes in the name of sanctity. Of such were those who persecuted St. John of the Cross in his last days, and helped him to enter heaven with greater pain and greater heroism. These were not the “calced” who caught him at the beginning of his career, but the champion ascetics of his own family, the men of the second generation, those who unconsciously did their best to ruin the work of the founders, and who quite consciously did everything they could to remove St. John of the Cross from a position in which he would be able to defend what he knew to be the Teresian ideal.

Sanctity itself is a living solution of the problem of suffering. For the saint, suffering continues to be suffering, but it ceases to be an obstacle to his mission, or to his happiness, both of which are found positively and concretely in the will of God. The will of God is found by the saint less in manifestations of the divine good-pleasure than in God himself.

Suffering, on the natural level, is always opposed to natural joy. There is no opposition between natural suffering and supernatural joy. Joy, in the supernatural order, is simply an aspect of charity. It is inseparable from the love that is poured forth in our hearts by the Holy Spirit. But when sanctity is not yet mature, its joy is not always recognizable. It can too easily be buried under pain. But true charity, far from being diminished by suffering, uses suffering as it uses everything else: for the increase of its own immanent vitality. Charity is the expression of a divine life within us, and this life, if we allow it to have its way, will grow and thrive most in the very presence of all that seems to destroy life and to quench its flame. A life that blazes with a hundredfold brilliance in the face of death is therefore invincible. Its joy cannot fail. It conquers everything. It knows no suffering. Like the Risen Christ, who is its Author and Principle, it knows no death.

The life of charity was perfect in the great Carmelite reformer, St. John of the Cross. It was so perfect that it can hardly be said to shine before men. His soul was too pure to attract any attention. Yet precisely because of his purity, he is one of the few saints who can gain a hearing in the most surprising recesses of an impure world. John of the Cross, who seems at first sight to be a saint for the most pure of the Christian elite, may very well prove to be the last hope of harlots and publicans. The wisdom of this extraordinary child “reaches from end to end mightily”. Lost in the pure wisdom of God, like God, and in God, he attains to all things. This saint, so often caricatured as an extremist, is actually beyond all extremes. Having annihilated all extremes in the center of his own humility, he remains colorless and neutral. His doctrine, which is considered inhumanly hard, is only hard because it is superhumanly simple. Its simplicity seems to present an obstacle to our nature, which has sought to hide itself from God in a labyrinth of mental complexities, like Adam and Eve amidst the leaves of paradise.

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John of the Cross Novena: Day 7

Novena to Saint John of the Cross

Day 7:

Listen Here.

Full Text of Novena Here.

Beginning Prayer to be said each day:

O glorious St. John of the Cross, through a pure desire of being like Jesus crucified, you longed for nothing so eagerly as to suffer, to be despised, and to be made little of by all; and your thirst after sufferings was so burning that your noble heart rejoiced in the midst of the cruelest torments and afflictions.

Grant, I beseech you, O dear Saint, by the glory which your many sufferings have gained for you, to intercede for me and obtain from God for me a love of suffering, together with strength and grace to bear with firmness of mind all the trials and adversities which are the sure means to the happy attainment of all that awaits me in heaven.

Dear Saint, from your most happy place in glory, hear, I beseech you, my prayers, so that after your example, full of love for the cross I may deserve to be your companion in glory. Amen.

Seventh Day: Humility

Blessed father St. John of the Cross, in you was joined the most profound humility to the most sublime knowledge of the ways of God.

Obtain for me real humility of heart, making me love humiliation and contempt that, despairing worldly vanity, I may learn from you to esteem only God and heavenly things.

Obtain for me also the special grace I ask through your intercession during this novena, if it be for the glory of God and for my salvation (make request).

Three Our Fathers and three Hail Marys.

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